Pride and Prejudice: First Three Paragraphs

Children are oblivious to their surroundings and thus, can freely express who they are. However, as these children grow up, societal pressures and norms tend to influence their individuality. The extent to which people should establish their individuality versus appease societal expectations becomes a controversial issue. As a result, there is a spectrum of perspectives that have been created. The extremists on both sides of this spectrum choose to either fully direct their attention to proclaiming their individuality or satisfying society, respectively. In contrast, the individuals or groups that fall in the middle of these poles understand how crucial it is to incorporate their own beliefs and society’s beliefs into their value system. Undeniably, each individual is entitled to find his own level of comfort within this spectrum. Nevertheless, as demonstrated by Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice and various cultures, it is more sensible to live in moderation than to be a lone island or a universal pleaser.

            By choosing to live as isolated individuals instead of trying to assimilate in the world around them, Elizabeth and Amish people are disadvantaged to a certain degree. Elizabeth allows her prejudice to stand in her way of giving her suitors, Mr. Collins and Mr. Darcy. Although she lives in a society that is built on classes, she refuses to acknowledge it.  She does not believe her lack of wealth should stand in her way and she fights for her place in society. Undeniably, her strong character is an attribute; however, given the era that Elizabeth lived in, her actions could have had dire repercussions.  Her lack of understanding her society could have led her to become an old maid and forgo the pleasures associated with marriage and family. Amish people also collectively isolate themselves from the world. Although their beliefs inherently make them who they are, unfortunately, these same beliefs hinder them from being accepted by other societies. They are looked upon as outsiders, who lack the common sense to indulge and learn from modern day technology.

            In contrast, Jane has managed to master the art of balancing her individuality with her placement within society. Unlike Elizabeth, Jane is not viewed upon as a social outcast. Her balance between individuality and society has prevented her from becoming ostracized. Although Jane is sacrificing individuality, she is gaining acceptance in the ranks of the elite.  Similar to Jane, the majority of Americans are better able to find a happy median between preserving their individuality and appeasing societal norms. Many Americans sacrifice individuality to join organizations and private institutions.